How to live after the wedding
When future spouses before the wedding managed to feel all the joys and hardships of living together, it would be much easier for them to get married. They have already managed to develop in themselves the ability to refrain from conflicts, to accept each other’s environment. In some situations, lovers at a young age have to get acquainted with the various character traits of each other only in the status of husband and wife. In order not to be disappointed, it should be understood that real family life consists not only of happy moments, but also of everyday duties and routine.
Difficulties living together
Perhaps the most common cause of all the problems and conflicts that arise after the wedding are high expectations. The newly made wife sincerely believed that after she got married, her chosen one would spend all her free time with her. The husband naively believed that his beloved with frantic enthusiasm would cook tasty dinners for him day and night and constantly clean their family nest. In reality, it turns out that each of the spouses has their own ideas about family life.
How to avoid monotony
To avoid monotony in marriage, change your outlook on family life. Your happiness depends only on you. Do not forget to make small surprises for each other. It can be the simplest fun little things, modest signs of attention. Leave each other comic romantic notes. Have fun on the weekend. Go on a family picnic, if you want, take friends with you.
Romance in a relationship
To preserve romance in family relationships, you have to connect a fantasy. Do not constantly wait for the spouse to take the first step. Write a romantic letter, arrange a wonderful evening by candlelight for only two, take a bath together with rose petals and aromatic oils. With your actions, you inspire a lover or beloved to respond. In family life, it is extremely important not to forget to make pleasant signs of attention to your soulmate.