One of the most talked about topics on wedding forums these days is: "When is the ideal age for marriage?".
Now more and more young people are inclined to believe that the best option is the so-called "civil marriage", which implies a joint life before the formalization of relations. The opportunity is given to test yourself in the role of a family person, compare several partners and ultimately choose the best option. But in this case, you should be careful not to notice one that is the only one with whom marriage could bring you happiness and mutual understanding.
In the past, the age of marriage was largely determined by the position of the future husband: whether he achieved success in life, built a career, took place as a person. Whereas, very different standards were applied to the bride. She had to be innocent, fresh, look at the world with wide open eyes and obey elders in everything. The average age at marriage of girls was 15-17 years. In this case, she completely depended on her husband. Unfortunately, most of these marriages could not be called happy. However, today there are many supporters of this option..
In the modern world, there is no established framework for determining the average age of marriage. It is generally believed that each couple must make their own decision on marriage.
- So, at 16-20 years old serious decisions and actions are easily given. Girls and boys are not yet considering the consequences of their actions. This is the age when young people take love and lust for a real feeling. Of course, you need to test your feelings, try to determine their seriousness. But even in these years, you can conclude a marriage, which will become your reliable stronghold for the rest of your life.
- At 20-30, a person evaluates himself more soberly. Mostly at this age he had already completed his studies and set about building his career. He has experience with various people. But this time of unlimited possibilities and sometimes I do not want to be bound by marriage, as well as the obligation to take care of my spouse and children.
- A person over 30 years old has an excellent knowledge base and is well aware of what he wants from life. And it would seem that here he is, that ideal age for marriage. However, in life, people of this age find it difficult to compromise and adjust their lives to the wishes of their partners. Therefore, getting used to another person is slower.
So it turns out that we never found that average age of marriage, which would be an ideal option?
Not at all! Just meeting in the life of that one, that beloved and closest person is a miracle that can happen to us at any age. To conquer our heart and mind, regardless of the number of years that we have lived, and on our experience in love affairs. This is a miracle that will happen to us at a time that will be ideal for such a meeting. And no matter how old you are, feel free to meet your happiness, love and be loved!