Is marriage for you?
Before the wedding, whatever you say, you still want to be sure that your union will be long, eternal love, and marriage - happy
- How do you think the groom gives you enough attention? A) of course, yes;
b) no, he is constantly busy;
c) I would like more attention. - A dispute arose between you. Your actions: a) we listen to each other, but it is not always easy to control ourselves;
b) often the dispute goes beyond the reasonable, growing into a quarrel;
c) we try to carefully listen to each other's point of view. - After the wedding, will you have secrets from your spouse? A) no one is safe from this;
b) probably not;
c) everything will depend on the situation. - Do you enjoy communicating with each other? A) of course, we always have something to talk about;
b) in part, sometimes there is no time for communication;
c) sometimes we speak different languages. - What role does his work play for you? A) no matter what he does, a career is not the main thing. Family is the most important thing.
b) work is a part of his life;
c) she is not interesting to me. - In your opinion, your problems and difficulties are serious for him? A) no, he is always ready to listen and support;
b) it happens;
c) often this is exactly what happens. - What is your lover's hobby for you? A) he has his own “toys”, I have my own;
b) if I do not like it, I will do everything so that he stops doing this;
c) I will try to take an active part. - Will you always completely and completely trust the groom? A) I am of the opinion “trust, but verify”;
b) in marital relations there is nothing more important than trust;
c) depending on the situation, but I am against "checks". - Do you always consult your fiancé, even when the question concerns you? A) of course, we always decide everything together;
b) often I make decisions myself;
c) we consult with each other, but everyone reserves the right to make a decision. - Do you always try to correct your mistakes? A) sometimes;
b) always;
c) yes, when it cooks. - Do you often compliment each other? A) how can you do without it? ;
b) by mood;
c) sometimes.
To summarize:
a - 1, b - 3, c - 2;
a — 2, b — 3, c — 1;
a — 3, b — 1, c — 2;
a — 1, b — 2, c — 3;
a — 2, b — 1, c — 3;
a — 1, b — 2, c — 3;
a — 2, b — 3, c — 1;
a — 3, b — 1, c — 2;
a — 1, b — 3, c — 2;
a - 3, b - 1, c - 2;
a - 1, b - 2, c - 3.
You scored from 11 to 17 points:
You tend to give more than accept. Marriage for you is the science of building a harmonious married life. You are always ready to compromise in relations with your loved one. In your family, the opinion of everyone will be valuable, and no one will seek to infringe on the interests of the other.
You scored from 18 to 25 points:
In marriage, you will need to learn to listen to your soulmate. Learn to feel what your beloved needs, what worries him, what worries him, what are his desires and interests. Having learned to move together in one direction, you can create a strong family, make a married life happy and harmonious.
You scored from 26 to 33 points:
Egoism is to some extent, of course, good, but not so much. If you intend to make your marriage happy, then you should learn to not only accept, but also give. Patience, tenderness, the ability to listen to your future spouse, the ability to compromise will help you avoid disappointment, make your relationship warmer, and communication less strained. The family is not built on the ambitions of one or the other partner, it is built on mutual understanding, mutual understanding and compromises. Or maybe you still have no time for marriage?