Wedding host: fun or professionalism?
A wedding is an event that marks a new life, a new stage in relationships and responsibilities. The desire to organize an ideal wedding is characteristic of absolutely all newlyweds, and today many understand that it is impossible to create an ideal setting and atmosphere at a mass event without professional assistants.
Arsenal «wedding» professionals in our country today are very close to the western one. Entrusting the main event of your life to the specialists of your business completely and wholly or to partially turn to their help is an individual choice of each. Nevertheless, this choice cannot be left out of the spotlight. This, of course, is about the host, because the wedding manager can surprise you by making coffee in the sand or by installing a candy floss machine in the corner of the banquet hall, but only the host will take on the mood of the guests.
Choosing a toastmaster is a very crucial moment. He needs to pay enough attention a few months before the wedding so that the event does not remind guests of the oven under the targeted jokes of the host or does not make you frankly bored. A careful choice will guarantee that guests will comfortably spend time at your wedding, regardless of their age, temperament and interests.
There are several surefire ways to choose a good professional for your wedding. The first and most reliable is reviews. Moreover, today it can be reviews of both acquaintances and completely strangers, it is enough to turn to the Internet. As a rule, good organizers have personal pages or sites where grateful customers leave their impressions. There are also short videos of events that show the host in action..
The next item is personal communication. A person may be an ace in his field, but the lack of personal sympathy will not add to your mood at your own wedding. At a personal meeting, you need to evaluate manners, speech, behavior, sense of humor. You need to ask for a video recording of his work or the phone number of former clients, and also to find out what time he does this type of service, what kind of education he has, whether he can sing, dance, play instruments.
When choosing the host of the client, the alertness, continuous speech, the presence of hackneyed scenarios and excitement should alert the client. An experienced presenter will make a script only after he listens to all the wishes of the customer. Tact will not allow an educated person to chatter and advertise himself incessantly. And the excitement may indicate that this toastmaster has not had clients for a long time, or that he is an amateur, not a professional. And who can guarantee that this excitement will not make itself felt in front of the guests of the event?
Making the perfect scenario will require several meetings. The first is for the moderator to determine in which direction he needs to develop events, which guests will be present at the wedding, and which traditions to include in the script. The second is needed so that the customer selects the points he likes and those that need to be excluded. Perhaps if you have created the perfect tandem, at the third meeting you will get a ready-made script, but most of all, that the meetings will be repeated an undetermined number of times. The main thing here is not to strain the situation, but to trust the person who inspired you to trust and believe that your wedding will be the most beautiful of all that were on Earth.