Redemption at the wedding has long been an indispensablepart of the ritual. The purpose of this old custom - test of the groom, check his generosity, wit, and depth of feeling to the bride. Today, this ritual is almost completely lost its symbolic meaning and become simply joyful celebration element allowing to remove excessive tension on the eve of a wedding convoy trip to the registrar, as well as amuse all those present.
But just to have fun, and not to embarrass or humiliatesomeone. When organizing a wedding ransom is important to remember that a bad script or inept preparation can turn a fun spectacle in real torture, which does not give pleasure to nobody, neither guests nor the bride nor the groom himself. Therefore, some tips will not superfluous.
To start with some advice for the bride:
- Be sure to ask whether the groom agreeparticipate in the proposed trial. Well, if he honorably overcome all obstacles will come out unscathed. And if not? Become the object of ridicule did not want anyone, but to correct the spoiled mood then it will be very, very difficult.
- Remember the "Safety" and carefullythink over the route by which the groom will get to you, that instead of the registry office he did not have to go to the nearest hospital. This, of course, the most extreme and unwanted of possible scenarios, but it is, unfortunately, not at all excluded.
- Remember that rural life has left in the past. Therefore, the traditional script, accompanied by folk costumes and ceremonial songs, does not always look appropriate in a modern city.
- Clearly think over all the organizational issues,such as: size of the ransom at a wedding (it is not necessary to turn it into a kind of auction), the procedure and duration of the test. Always leave a little time for all sorts of delays, without which nothing, anywhere and never complete.
- For guests not yawning, looking videoredemption at the wedding, try to be creative and come up with a spark of the original job, consistent with the personality of the groom. Who knows better than you! Use ready-made schemes, of course, easier, and more boring, time disappears because of surprise.
And now tips the groom:
- Redemption at the wedding is better to take it as a game, not as a regular check of your human qualities. Calm down, nothing in the opinion of the bride of you, he will not add or subtract.
- Try to behave at the time of redemption onthe wedding is quite natural and relaxed as possible. Do not forget that smile - your "magic wand" in many situations. Think about what your views are critically assess not only the guests, but also the future descendants: try to stay so that they do not have doubted that today really is the happiest day in your life.
- You definitely have the true friend that nevernot fail in any situation will come to your aid? Then by all means take it with you: the two of you will be much easier to resist all the machinations that prepare you girlfriends and relatives of the bride.
- It is also helpful in advance to meet with scenarioscontests and redemption at the wedding, their, you can easily find and in a variety of Internet. Believe me, the human imagination is not as boundless as it sometimes seems
- And finally: try not to forget about your future mother in law. Perhaps it was the ransom at a wedding and provide you the best time to establish a relationship with her, if you did not succeed so far. A bouquet of flowers is sometimes capable of performing miracles, and even soften the coldest, unyielding heart.