Your best friend has decided to marry and invited youto be a witness at his wedding? As a guest at weddings, you've seen the witnesses, we watched their actions, but not quite sure that you know all the details that have to do a witness at the wedding. Usually it happens. But if you had the honor of this, it is impossible to bring a friend. We need to clearly grasp for themselves the witness duties. We will try to help.
A witness at the wedding of duties
What should a witness at the wedding - vacationor work? Get ready for what will be mainly in the preparation and carrying out of hen. Usually it is held before or 2-3 days before the wedding. Your friend says goodbye to bachelor life, this day should be remembered by him forever. Pre-arrange your stag scenario. The bridegroom should not know anything about the program, for him all this day should be a surprise. Reach to the stag best groomsmen who do not know him to women, girls, drink, be merry enough.
The party draw stuff like that in the morningyour friend, sighing, said: "All of them! I walk up! I want to get married soon! "Do not forget that on the day of the wedding witness the groom should have a good rest, to sleep, because the main thing is not a bachelor party, and wedding. Both of you will have a lot of trouble, you are waiting for a pleasant and not too contests job. That only is the bride price! All they need to do a witness at the wedding should look beautiful naturally. Remember where the nearest flower shop. You have to go there with a friend, to choose a bouquet for the bride and bridesmaid. Express your generosity, delicate taste.
The appearance of a witness is chosen to his taste. This may be a black suit, white shirt and tie. It will also look solemn suit white color matching accessories will bow tie. Although, given the fact that the witness has to do at the wedding, it is preferable to be a dark-colored suit. Under the suit color selected shoes. The dress must be beautiful, elegant, because the witness - the second person after the wedding the groom. And the presence of a number of charming witness all the more obliged to look great.
Do not forget that the witness - the right hand, the supportand support for the groom. He just has to be the most fun, inventive, to know exactly what the witnesses have to do at weddings, wedding to know the customs, traditions. Your important mission - to make sure that everything was going according to plan, it starts with the preparation of hen and ends with the last guest's departure from the wedding.
On the wedding day
A witness in the wedding day, you need tocome early to a friend's house to help him get dressed to come to the registrar. Try not to embarrass, not to forget anything necessary for the ceremony, better make a list in advance. Keep your passport, wedding rings, bouquets for the bride and bridesmaid. Ask, what will sprinkle newlyweds after leaving the registry office. For example, rose petals, coins, grain. Grab these objects necessarily with each other. Be sure to remind the guests that need to decorate wedding car ribbons. If you remember a little bit of experience that should make the witness at the wedding, then you have a concept about the procedure bride price. You will have to endure this procedure on his shoulders. Be sure to grab the money with him, it is desirable that they were different denominations, small and larger - bride today is not cheap. You will also come in handy a few bottles of champagne, wine, vodka, some fruit, candy - it may come in handy for bribing harsh "sellers". Remember how to bargain, all sorts of jokes, jokes about it. It will help to bribe a witness beautiful bouquet selected the day before. And most importantly - Take courage, because of the great mock you before will give the bride. And when the happy groom finally gets to his beloved, wedding procession goes to the registrar, the new responsibilities there waiting for you.
The registry office
Come to the marriage for need 20 minutes prior to the startregistration of marriage. Witness giving passports to employees institutions to put them in print. He also checks the readiness of the photographer and the video operator to work, because you need to capture the ceremony is mandatory. During the wedding ceremony a witness stands next to the bride, trying not to step on her dress. Keeps wedding rings, which then will give the newlyweds.
Together with the witness at the right timespreads to young wedding towel on which they become. When the time comes, opens a bottle of champagne, he pours his youngest wedding glasses. Carefully he takes out of the hands of young flowers donated by guests. When you hear the solemn melody of Mendelssohn's march, distributes kulechki guests with rose petals, wheat or coins for obsypaniya young when leaving the Palace of Marriages. Knowing that should make the witness at the wedding, you will be the first violin, the main organizer of key events.
At the banquet
It would seem that all the most important thing is behind us, we canrelax with a delicious wedding table. But there it was ... everything is just beginning to witness. I do not even guess that has to do a witness at the wedding after the registrar? He is the chief assistant toastmaster, and in his absence - leading. Witness toasts, the guests invited by the way, loved ones, parents of young. Read more in our video tells about the problems of the witnesses at the wedding of one of the leading professional.
Be prepared to participate actively in all activities where it is necessary not only to engage, entertain people, but also to bring to games and competitions guests.
And most importantly - in the wedding mess is not to lose sight of the bride, because it will want to steal, then you will not be good - will, together with the bride to pay a ransom.
On the eve of the wedding will have to be with a frienddrive from walking and shooting, to measure the time, about to plan the day. After the wedding ceremony, a good witness checks, as guests are provided with transport, whether all had enough seats in cars and buses. It reminds the driver route. He takes with champagne glasses, needed for photography. During shooting witness helps the couple to choose a good place to shoot, helps the photographer, the operator. Hungry guests distributes snack. He must keep track of time, so that the young are not late for the banquet.
Actions on redemption
Bride Redemption - an ancient Russian ritual, veryfunny, entertaining. The groom with the witness and guests come to the house of the neck, where it must pay for a certain amount of money. Therefore, you need to prepare for the repayment in advance. Help a friend to collect the bag with the necessary props. Put back the wine, candy, apples and anything else that will help to negotiate with the "entourage" cruel witness. Do not forget to take the money from the groom when vytryasut every penny, will have to shell out to the witness. Prepare a par with the bride to go through the most incredible job that you will be ordered to perform his girlfriend narrowed, without it you just do not give it. One example of the bride foreclosure proceedings captured on our video.
Will you sing, dance, tell jokes - this is the main thing that has to do a witness at the wedding. Have fun, laugh, all the positive charge, this day should be remembered for a long time!
After the celebration
The witness has a role until the last guest. When the couple goes to sleep, it should help them to collect flowers, gifts, organize a beautiful farewell. Then, for the remaining guests to continue the feast and fun. As a witness and knowing exactly what to do witness at a wedding, a vacation you obviously do not have. As you are such a role? Duties of more than rights, you need to thoroughly prepare. If you have already been in the role of witness, share with us your impressions that have and have - not very. We will be glad to know that these tips have been useful for you.