Your best friend has decided to marry and invited youto be a witness at the wedding? As a guest, in the wedding you have the opportunity to observe the actions of the witness, but you are not quite sure in the knowledge that should make the witness at the wedding? Usually it happens. But if you had the honor of this, it is impossible to bring a friend, because you need to clearly grasp the witness for themselves the duties and act.
A witness at the wedding of duties
What should a witness at the wedding - vacationor work? Get ready for what will be mainly in the preparation and carrying out of hen. Typically, bachelor party held the day before or 2-3 days before the wedding. Your friend says goodbye to bachelor life, you have to organize an unforgettable experience of the day. Prepare to be serious:
- Pre-arrange your stag scenario.
- The future bridegroom nothing needs to know about the program, the party for him - surprise.
- Reach to the stag best groomsmen, strange women, girls, drink, be merry enough.
Spend a party to the morning of yourfriend, sighing, said, "walk up! I want to get married soon! ". Do not forget that the wedding day to witness the groom should have a good rest, to sleep, because the main thing - not a bachelor party and wedding. Both of you will have a lot of trouble, because the wedding day full of pleasant events, contests, jobs. That only is the bride price!
That should do the witness at the wedding,It will certainly look beautiful naturally. Remember where the nearest flower shop - you have to go there with a friend, to choose a bouquet for the bride and bridesmaid. Express your generosity, delicate taste.
The appearance of a witness must be consistent with the overall style of the wedding, but all the same, dress is chosen to taste:
- This may be a classic black suit with white shirt and tie.
- It will be a solemn look as white suit and matching accessories will be the bow tie.
- If we consider that the main thing that has to doa witness at the wedding - is to take part in competitions and other entertainment, more practical to choose a dark-colored suit and a suit the color selected shoes.
The dress must be beautiful, elegant, because the witness - the second person after the groom. And the presence of a number of charming witness all the more obliged to look great.
Do not forget that the witness - the right hand, the supportand support for the groom. He just has to be the most fun, inventive, to know exactly what the witnesses have to do at weddings, master wedding customs and traditions. Your important mission - to make sure that everything was going according to plan, it starts with the preparation of hen and ends with the last guest's departure from the wedding.
On the wedding day
A witness in the wedding day, you need tocome early to a friend home to help him get dressed to come to the wedding. Try not to embarrass, not to forget anything necessary for the ceremony, better make a list in advance. Keep your passport, wedding rings, bouquets for the bride and bridesmaid. Ask, what will sprinkle newlyweds after leaving the registry office: for example, rose petals, coins, grain - grab it with him. Be sure to remind the guests that need to decorate wedding car ribbons.
If you remember a little from my own experience thatmust make a witness at the wedding, then you have a concept about the procedure bride price. You have to literally make such a procedure on his shoulders. Be sure to grab the money with him, it is desirable that they were different denominations, small and larger - bride now cheap. You will also come in handy a few bottles of champagne, wine, vodka, some fruit, candy - it can play a role in the howling bribery harsh "sellers".
Remember, as a bargain, useall kinds of jokes, jokes that will go with this. The witness will bribe beautiful bouquet selected the day before. And most importantly - Take courage, because at you properly mock before the groom give the bride in hands. And when the happy groom finally gets to his beloved, wedding procession goes to the registrar, the new responsibilities there waiting for you.
The registry office
Come to the marriage for it is necessary for 20 minutes before the startregistration of marriage. Witness giving passports to employees institutions to put them in print. He also checks the readiness of the photographer and the video operator to work, because you need to capture the ceremony is mandatory. During the wedding ceremony a witness stands next to the bride, trying not to step on her dress. Keeps wedding rings, which then will give the newlyweds.
Together with this irreplaceable witnessParticipants of the ceremony at the right time spreads wedding towel, which becomes a witness of the first joint steps newlyweds. When the time comes, opens a bottle of champagne, he pours his youngest wedding glasses, as well as takes care of the hands of young flowers donated by guests. When you hear the solemn melody of Mendelssohn's march, the witness gives guests kulechki with rose petals, wheat or coins, to sprinkle the young at the exit from the Palace of Marriages.
Knowing that should make the witness at the wedding, you will be the first violin, the main organizer of key events.
At the banquet
It would seem that the most important thing is behind us, we canrelax with a delicious wedding table. But there it was ... everything is just beginning to witness. I do not even guess that has to do a witness at the wedding after the registrar? He is the chief assistant toastmaster, and in his absence - leading. Witness toasts, the guests invited by the way, loved ones, parents of young. Learn what tasks performs a witness from the groom, tell the professional leading video.
Be prepared to participate actively in all activities where it is necessary not only to participate, entertain people, but also to involve games, competitions guests.
And most importantly - in the wedding mess is not to lose sight of the bride, because it will want to steal, then you will not be good: we'll have together with the bride to pay a ransom.
On the eve of the wedding will have to be with a frienddrive from walking and shooting, to measure the time, about to plan the day. After the wedding ceremony, a good witness checks, as guests are provided with transport, whether all had enough seats in cars and buses, and then reminds drivers of the route and its main stopping places. He takes with champagne glasses, needed for photography - and go!
During shooting witness helpsnewlyweds choose a good place to shoot, it helps the photographer, the operator. At the same time t witness a real magician gives hungry guests snack. He must keep track of time, so that the young are not late for the banquet.
Actions on redemption
Bride Redemption - an ancient Russian ritual, veryfunny, entertaining. The groom and guests with the witness comes into the house to a narrowing, where they have to pay for it a sum of money. Prepare for the repayment in advance: help a friend collect the bag with the necessary props, put to good wine, candy, apples and more, which will help to negotiate with the "entourage" cruel witness. Do not forget to take the money, because when the groom will give everything to the penny, will have to shell out to the witness.
Prepare a par with the bride to go through the most unimaginable tasks that you perform girlfriend ordered his betrothed, without it you just do not give it.
An example of how the Bride redemption procedure, refer to the video.
You will sing, dance, tell jokes - is the main thing that has to do a witness at the wedding. Have fun, laugh, all the positive charge, this day should be remembered for a long time!
After the celebration
Witness plays its role to the momentthe last guest has left. When the couple already go to sleep, it should help them to collect flowers, gifts, organize a beautiful farewell. Then, for the remaining guests to continue the feast and fun.
It is so important person at the ceremony andunderstanding exactly what to do witness at the wedding, you will find that vacation you obviously do not have. As you are such a role? Duties of more than rights, and the need to prepare thoroughly ...
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