Swiss sociologists conducting scientific observationfor young married couples, we have determined that there are five types (styles) relations. They are more or less harmonious model of conjugal relations.
Within these five styles of relationships laid the concept of your cohabitation, its foundation, the distribution of family responsibilities, willingness to solve family problems, etc.
According to sociologists, living together - ita well-designed project, a business plan, rather than a "gift from heaven". After all, sooner or later, but all young couples, no matter how romantic they were not to have to deal with the distribution of power and family responsibilities.
The specific model (relationship style) is basedat the age of partners, their education, social status and surrounding vital factors. For example, a family-based association is on the above elements. Often our parents living together is based on a traditional scheme of family-fortress. It is also possible that there are mixed types of relationship styles. Often, this occurs at a time when there are children, that is, a young couple from the family association becomes a family companions.
Every style of relationships has its positive and negative sides. But not one of them, is not a panacea in the family life together.
At the moment, the model (style relationship) familyassociates is heading the classification. According to researchers in that style partners feel the fullness of love, support, respect, joy.
There is also a family of parallel worlds, in this style of relations prevail feelings and emotions. Partners often either blame each other or ignore.
Family-like cocoon and the family-style castle more tradicional relations which often all satisfied and feel comfortable, of course, not without exceptions.
Family-association, though not the first, but not theStill, the most common style, which is characterized by competition. On the one hand the partners provide each other opportunities for development, and on the other hand emerge the interests of everyone, and it is often because of a reluctance to give up, in the family union start squabbles, quarrels and eventually divorce.
The success of each union does not depend on the style of relations and of their content and the willingness to fight for their happiness.
Whatever it was, the family - this is the place where we love, rejoice, relax, gain strength, experience - this is our small fortress, which must be inaccessible to discord, problems and difficulties.
Family-fortress - a union where each tiedto each other. This style is always traced understanding, each value in the eyes of another. Partners aim to achieve a joint result. In this style of relationships clearly defined roles and responsibilities, allowing each family member to feel out of place, without any prejudice to the personal interests. Decisions are taken jointly.
Everything is based on what such an alliance - stability. Thanks to the clear allocation of responsibilities (the wife - is engaged in the home, the husband - earns money) joint married life becomes harmonious and balanced. Partners all efforts try to avoid disagreements, often compromising.
But, despite all this idyll, in this stylerelationship has its flaws, conjugal life in such a union adjacent to the routine. If such a relationship is not the time to make the "wind of change" it threatens the rigidity of a relationship that eventually will go into a habit.